Have you ever felt this way?

“I’m divorced. My marriage failed. I failed my children. Their home is broken; their life is ruined. MY life is ruined. How am I going to rebuild a life for myself… and my children?”.

You’re not alone. I used to feel like this too. And I know many divorced Muslimahs who also struggle with overwhelming emotions like this that leave you feeling paralyzed, weak, and scared.

Please know that there is a way out of this, and a renewed life of hope and possibility awaits you!

Although the end of a marriage deeply hurts, it is also the beginning of something more beautiful. After all, our faith assures us with the promise that when Allah ﷺ takes something away from you, He will replace it with something better!

So are you ready to find out how you can empower yourself to discover that better life for you and your children? Read on…

First of all, before we embark on the healing journey, it’s so important you understand that going through a divorce does NOT mean you -- nor your ex-husband -- have failed your children.

Often times, ending an unhealthy marriage is the best thing you both can do for your children. How come? Well, here’s a very important truth you need to hear.

Conflict between parents -- not the separation of parents -- is what causes trauma. If there is conflict in an unhealthy marriage, it is that conflict that hurts the child most. Similarly, conflict in a divorce is what hurts the child and causes trauma.

So the key to rebuilding a life for you and your children, is resolving conflict.

You see, what your children need most for their success and healthy emotional development is an unconditional relationship with BOTH the mother and father that Allah ﷺ has assigned to them.

And you can still give them this healthy foundation, even if you’re divorced, by resolving conflict and creating a new, healthy co-parenting relationship with your ex-husband.

How on earth can you do that with a man whom there is deep hurt with?

Let me share with you the two breakthroughs I had that helped me not only heal myself but also guide me to access my innate resilience, so I can be the rock for my children to help them heal from the trauma resulting from conflict through divorce.

Vengeance, anger, and seeking to “punish” your ex-husband will NOT help your children. In fact, it will only create more conflict and trauma for them.

But I know just how hard it is to deal with the overwhelming emotions of an unhealthy marriage and divorce. The pain, hurt, resentment, betrayal, anxiety and fear can be crushing.

However, when I shifted my focus from trying to deal with the divorce and from my ex-husband to deepening two of the most important relationships in my life, that was when I was able to accelerate the healing process. What are those two relationships?

1. My relationship with Allah ﷺ
2. My relationship with myself

Discovering and cultivating these two essential relationships allowed me to get through the fog of overwhelming emotions that were holding me back from healing and rebuilding a better life for me and my children.

Getting through this fog also opened the path for me to tap into my intuitive parenting, where I was able to learn how to co-parent my children with my ex-husband from a calm, peaceful place inside, even though the external circumstances with him were explosive.

I want you to know that each and every one of us has the ability to do this. You’re already equipped with innate resilience to heal and parent your child. You will know what to do in any given situation, no matter how difficult the situation is.

But it’s impossible to do it when you’re overwhelmed by heightened emotions.

• Access to the 3-hour LIVE workshop, “Getting Through the Fog”
  “Getting Through the Fog” is based on the first module of the breakthrough course, “Reinventing Life After Divorce”. This workshop is thus a low-commitment opportunity for you to experience “Reinventing Life After Divorce” before deciding if the full course is right for you.

• Live Q&A with Rayesa Gheewala
  The workshop is designed to move you through confusion and get breakthrough clarity. The process can be confusing, which is why I’ve designed the workshop to include a Q&A session so you’ll have the chance to get support in a safe space.

• Lifetime access to the recording, “Breaking Through the Fog”
  After the live workshop, you’ll have lifetime access to the recording of the workshop. This is so you can go back anytime you need to revise, reflect, and gain new insights as you move forward in the post divorce journey and co-parenting.
  

• 1 x 30-minute free support call after the workshop (valued at $197)
  I want to make sure you get the personal support you need to discover what’s holding you back from the life you envision for you and your children. After the workshop, you’ll have the chance to book a FREE 30-minute support call with me, so we can take a deep dive and tackle your personal challenges together.

• Secure an exclusive 10% discount on “Reinventing Life After Divorce”
  This workshop is based on the first module of my breakthrough course, “Reinventing Life After Divorce”. By joining this workshop, you’ll secure a no-obligation 10% discount on my course, should you wish to continue your journey with me.