Learn How To Transform Your Marriage Decisions with Clarity, Confidence, and Faith

I provide transformative coaching and support for motivated Muslim wives who are struggling with the pain of indecision about their marriage through my programs. 

In Empowered Choices: Navigating Marital Crossroads with Clarity & Confidence 

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Reinvent Yourself After Divorce
 

I guide women back to their innate well being, confidence, and resilience (fitrah), so they can make decisions about their marriage with clarity and confidence rooted in Taqwa and Tawakkul, knowing that there are other options besides divorce.  

What makes a difference is my holistic approach, rooted in Islamic principles of Taqwa (God-consciousness) and Tawakkul (trust and reliance on Allah). I help my clients discern the difference between personal wounds they need to heal that are disrupting their relationships and genuine marital issues that require attention. By focusing on internal transformation and self-worth, I empower them to make decisions that align with their faith and values.

My own journey through a high-conflict divorce, co-parenting challenges, and the emotional pain of parental alienation allows me to connect deeply with my clients, offering them compassionate, faith-based guidance and a clear roadmap for healing and empowerment.

Unlock Your Inner Strength, Embrace Clarity, Confidence, and Peace in Your Life

I help women achieve a profound transformation that starts from within. When they work with me, they move from a place of confusion, emotional pain, and indecision to one of peace, clarity, and confidence. Through my coaching, I help them reconnect with the self-worth that Allah has already bestowed upon them. Their innate worth and well-being, rooted in their fitrah, may be obscured by painful past experiences, but it is never lost. Together, we uncover the barriers that have clouded their perception, allowing them to rediscover their worth and resilience through conscious awareness, Taqwa, and Tawakkul, deepening their relationship with Allah.

They learn to heal personal wounds, discern the real issues in their marriage, and make empowered decisions. Whether that means recommitting to yourself in the current marriage with a renewed sense of purpose after healing, connecting and aligning with your aspirational identity, or finding the strength to walk away with grace and tawakkul.

Envision a life where you feel fully aligned with your values and faith, where you're confident in who you are and what you want. Picture yourself free from the burden of doubt, able to navigate your relationships with clarity and wisdom. You'll be empowered to face life's challenges with strength, secure in the belief that your birthright is peace, embedded in your fitrah. The decisions you make—whether to stay or to leave—will be made from a place of confidence and trust in Allah, leading you to a life of contentment, fulfillment and inner peace.

Hi, I'm Rayesa Gheewala

Your Muslimah Divorce Coach

Navigating life’s toughest challenges can lead to profound transformation—and I’m living proof of that. My journey as a divorce coach is deeply inspired by my own personal healing process, which began with a high-conflict divorce and a tumultuous co-parenting experience. The pain of parental alienation and the emotional rupture of the mother-child bond led me back home to my Fitrah (natural state) and strengthened my connection to Allah.

Through these experiences, I discovered that no matter how broken we may feel, we are created whole and healing is possible. With the right perspective and a deep reliance on Allah, it’s within our power to release past burdens and embrace a life of peace, purpose, and passion. If I could overcome these challenges, so can you.

“I’ve really transformed, alhamdulillah.

"All the sessions together have helped me understand my human experience and how to connect back to my Fitrah state. I enjoyed thinking through my personal relationships and applying this new way of being and thinking. I’ve really transformed, alhamdulillah. The way I approach stressful situations is so different now. I’m more confident and, most importantly, I feel more able to turn to Allah for the answers I am seeking. I would 100% recommend this to anyone, whether they are currently struggling or just wanting to refresh their intentions and connection with themselves and Allah."

- R

“My mind is just less cluttered. 

“I was hesitant whether this would be right for me since I wasn’t divorced or in the process of divorce. The cost also initially scared me. I was stuck trying to move forward in my marriage. I didn’t have clarity about what next steps to take. I was holding on to anger and resentment and my behaviors were reactive. I had a very narrow focus when I first started. I just wanted to work through the struggle I was having in my marriage. But this journey has been so much more than that. I’ve learned what my core values are which I’ve never identified. I reconnected with my source, Allah. I’ve learned so much about myself and my own self sabotage. I feel like my mind is just less cluttered." 

- S

“I feel that clouds have parted and I’m seeing clearly alhamdulillah.

I feel less anxiety and it’s a lot easier for me to do what is right. It was surprising to me how much I enjoyed the group sessions. I’ve taken away a lot of learning from the coaching sessions with others. It’s sometimes hard to articulate myself and I’m able to see my struggles through others. I started this journey struggling with my marriage and now I feel that clouds have parted and I’m seeing clearly alhamdulillah.”

- R.S.

“Rayesa helped me reach deep down and guided me on how to trust myself. 

It felt like having an older sister I never had. I had conversations with you that I've had with others but it felt like it never got anywhere. Every session was such a big impact. Some were painful realizations but each one was extremely necessary. It was the best investment I've made for myself. In every way I really took a lot away from this experience.  I've noticed I have more confidence, stronger connection with Allah, with myself, and I can feel the growth. It helps me grow and understand more about how I see and live life”

- M.A.

Step into Your Best Life Empowering change from the inside out

True transformation begins from within. I believe that when you deepen your connection to Allah and nurture your relationship with yourself, everything else in life—your choices, decisions, and relationships—starts to align. No one is broken. We are created whole in our Fitrah. Your well-being, is already intact; it just needs to be uncovered from life’s burdens.

Whether you choose to rebuild your marriage or move toward divorce, I am here to help you align with your highest purpose.

I want you to know that you can access your birthright of wisdom (Hikma) and insight (Baseera) when you return back home to your fitrah. Being able to see Allah's guidance with your heart you will intuitively know how to move forward in any given situation, no matter how difficult the situation is.